The qualities of a Gentleman

Virtues and character of a gentleman

This poem lovingly describes the enduring virtues and character of the gentleman, from love and dedication in marriage to commitment as a partner, father, son and friend.

‘Gentleman’ is not a word I hear very often anymore. I originally wrote this poem for my two wonderful brothers, who are true gentlemen. I added the last few verses to reflect a Gentleman in a loving relationship.

Listen HERE – Poem – Dad, You Are A Gentleman

“What do you see in me?” he asked

“A gentleman is what I see.”

“I’m no gentleman”, he laughed.

I said, “Please let me explain.”


I once saw a young man

Who won the true love

Of a young woman, and as one

Their love has lasted a lifetime.


Then I saw a fiancé

Whose strong, rugged hands,

Softly and tenderly

Embraced his sweetheart.


Now, I see a husband

Whose gentle embrace

Engulfs her in peace

And protects her from harm.


I see a mature man

With old-fashioned values

Weathered and wrinkled

From the harsh Australian sun.


I see a father

Who devoted his youth

To raise his children

And provide for his family.


I see a working man

Who goes the extra mile

Proud of his work ethic

Striving for the best.


I see a handsome man

Who likes to dress smart

Who looks quite charming

In suit and tie.


I see a grown man

Who sheds a tear

When he shows gratitude

In exchange for kind deeds.


I see a family man

Whose heart does ache

With the loss of loved ones

So dear to him.


I see a healthy man

Who has suffered from illness

But continues to want

To live life to the full.


I see a true friend

Whose smile enchants

Warms my heart

And approves of me.


I see a mate

Whose kind laughter is heard

Infectiously causing

Laughter in return.


I see a son

Whose words comfort his mum

With a message of love

That melts her heart.


I see a gentleman

Whose gentle, kind nature

Relaxes people

And banishes their fear.


Outside appearance doesn’t matter to me

I see his soul and spirit

Unique and special

God’s gift to his family.

Beverley Joy © 2014 of Simply Story Poetry. All Rights Reserved.

You may also like to listen to or read my poem God bless you Dad

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