Enduring virtues and character
This poem lovingly describes the enduring virtues and character of the gentleman, from love and dedication in marriage to commitment as a partner, father, son and friend.
The expression ‘Gentleman’ is not used very often anymore. The meaning of this word has shifted throughout history from an early English term for an adult male who owns property and has an income above that of manual labour.
The modern meaning of the word ‘Gentleman’ describes the character and behaviour of an adult male, including integrity, kindness, politeness, and respect for others.
I originally wrote this poem for my two wonderful brothers, who are true gentlemen.
In loving memory of my dad, who passed away in 2025. Beverley Joy
Listen HERE – Poem – Dad, You Are A Gentleman
“What do you see in me?” he asked
“A gentleman is what I see.”
“A gentleman”, he laughed.
“Yes” I said confidently, “Please let me explain.”
I saw a young man who won the true love of a young woman
And as one, their love flourished.
Then, I saw a fiancé whose strong, rugged hands
Softly and tenderly embraced his sweetheart.
Now, I see a husband whose gentle embrace
Engulfs her in peace and protects her from harm.
I see a mature man with old-fashioned values
Weathered and wrinkled from the harsh Australian sun.
I see a father who devoted his youth
To raise his children and provide for his family.
I see a working man who goes the extra mile
Proud of his work ethic, striving for the best.
I see a handsome man who likes to dress smart
Who looks quite charming in suit and tie.
I see a grown man who sheds a tear silently
Then wipes it dry and soldiers on positively.
I see a family man who longs to embrace
Loved ones lost through death or distance.
I see a healthy man who has suffered through illness
But still wants to regain life in its fullness.
I see a brother whose warm smile enchants
Who loves and approves of who I am.
I see a mate whose kind laughter is heard
Infectiously causing laughter in return.
I see a son who gave comfort
To his ageing parents with loyalty and love.
I see a gentleman whose gentle, kind nature
Relaxes people and banishes their fear.
Outside appearance doesn’t matter to me
I see his soul and spirit
Unique and special
God’s gift to his family.
Beverley Joy © 2014 of Simply Story Poetry. All Rights Reserved.
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